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Sascha Altman DuBrul's avatar

(anon.) I read your piece. I love that you will never let her be forgotten

I have such strong feelings about that death.

Where she would call me wasted on the phone hell late at night sobbing about how mean those housemates were to her about how white and straight and wealthy she was

Ran into one of the women at Tiller ten years after. The meanest one. Who was then married (to a man) with land (her parents bought her) and had the hardest time not attacking her for shoving her off the bridge

I hold that house and all those women responsible

And see so much of that same rich kid bloodlust in so much of the cancel culture activist scene.

Gangs of newer generations of that same psychopath activist culture attacking 14 year old Mexican kids for wearing mohicans

And people waiting with such glee for the moment they can tee off on someone for a poor word choice or analysis that differs

Sera is how I ended up here.

Away from all that shit. With better people who don’t go through life deliberately hurting other people

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Starhawk's avatar

I so agree with your comments on the movement--that's why I've been writing the series on The Movement We Need, to try and get progressives to understand that if we don't meet people's needs for safety, belonging, value, agency and meaning in positive ways, they'll fulfill them in really damaging ways, or leave, or succumb to suffering.

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Erik Jonas's avatar

Beautifully written, Sascha. Thank you

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kate gardiner clearlight's avatar

Thank you for making her life a legacy, to help us stop silencing and shaming each other when we really want the same things 💔

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Bebe Smith's avatar

I have so many ghosts that stay with me. Really appreciate your perspective here.

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Lauren Spiro's avatar

Thank you Sasha. You are a breath of fresh air. Please keep writing so I have your mind to fill my heart and my mind. I wonder how we can fly close, but not too close, to the sun to create a wave, to create change that units souls in harmony, strength and wisdom

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Bama Mike's avatar

Thank you Sascha. I am sorry you lost Sera. Thank you for all of the conversations we have had over the past years 🤟🏽🙏🏼🤟🏽🚩🏴🌈

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Jeremiah Horrigan's avatar

Sascha! So happy yo (re)discover you. You sound like yoe sttegthen even more than whenni interviewed you for the Middle town Tomes Heral-Record, I've since the paper & now write stories closer to my heart. Stories like yours. I'm looking before arc to learning more about what you've been up to thru your Substack. Best wishes - Jeremiah

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Sascha Altman DuBrul's avatar

AMAZING! That article you wrote about me and The Icarus Project was 20 years ago! I remember because I was 30! A lot has happened since then. I'd love to be in touch and catch up. Every time I hear that Beatles song "A Saw Her Standing There" I think of sitting in that pub in New Paltz with you and telling you stories about my childhood. I hope you are well!

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Sascha Altman DuBrul's avatar

hey look that article is still up there all these years later! https://www.recordonline.com/story/news/2005/06/05/to-those-who-are-bipolar/51128699007/

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Tony Previte's avatar

Indeed, we are still out there.... Always listening for the echo to come back to us.

Be well.

Tony

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